Saturday, September 21, 2013

A WOMAN IN UNIFORM

Contribution to ONE VOICE Magazine published 2013

     I come from a military family, so it is no surprise that I am now serving the country as part of the military.  However, I am not in the same branch of service as the rest of my family because of physical requirements that I did not meet.  With my experience in education and teaching, I began by giving lectures, doing researches, and writing articles for the Armed Forces of the Philippines (AFP).  Their need for applicants to the Corps of Professors reached me, and I had to decide if I could leave the comforts of my civilian life to answer this gnawing call of duty.

     The decision was hard to make because the working hours I had before this opportunity was ideal. I was juggling part-time jobs and enjoying a flexible schedule.  The pay I received from these jobs was not bad, either.  Another factor that I had to consider was that we (my husband and I) were (and still are) homeschooling our children. Given this, I felt restless about my career path.  Still, I felt something was missing.

    It was not easy, but I pressed on towards my call to join the AFP.  I had to pass a variety of medical and physical fitness tests which proved to be a feat for my civilian lifestyle.  While I struggled through this, promotions and job offers from other places were falling on my lap like an avalanche.  I felt as if God was testing my heart – to know what mattered most to me.  I chose to join the military.

     Most people were surprised at my decision. However, I can say that being in the AFP’s Corps of Professors gives me an opportunity to merge my two passions: teaching and loving my country. I belong to a Corps that serves as the permanent faculty of the AFP.  We serve the Philippine Military Academy and the educational training units of the Philippine Air Force, Philippine Army, and the Philippine Navy.

     Being a uniformed woman brings a sense of pride, even if I simply belong to a long line of women in the military.  The AFP has given us equal opportunities for career growth and has given us considerations for our personal concerns.  I am empowered as a woman in the military. It is really difficult to balance this career and my role as a mother and teacher (though my husband shares the homeschooling load now). My family has to adjust to the demands of my profession, which includes transferring residences nearer to my assignment.


     I am happy that young as they are, my children respect my being a soldier, as they know that this is a childhood dream of mine.  Time and again, my kids are reminded that if they work and pray hard for their dreams, their own dreams will come true. My kids see me and they see all the things they want to be.  God knows the desires of our hearts, and His call of duty on my life has allowed me to reach mine. 

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